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Online dating can be tricky -- for all sexes. Putting yourself out on the interweb, representing yourself as best as you can through a couple Slut Websites of photographs and a tiny paragraph, and then waiting for random strangers to "approve" of you is stressful. But hey, the pursuit of love (or sex) is no easy task, or so claimed Lord Byron.
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I would've expected that too considering the one man was clearly way older and fatter than he looked, but the other man was up-to-date and I used very recent pictures, so I think it's more of an average. I remember my mom always used old pictures that made her look skinnier lol. So I'm wondering how accurate those statistics are.
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