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Online dating can be tricky -- for all sexes. Putting yourself out onto the interweb, representing yourself as best as you can through a few photographs and a tiny paragraph, and then waiting for random strangers to "approve" of you is trying. But hey, the pursuit of love (or sex) is no easy task, or so claimed Lord Byron.
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I'd 've expected that too considering the 1 guy was obviously way older and fatter than he looked, but the other guy was up-to-date and I used very recent pictures, so I believe it's more of an average. I remember my mom always used old pictures that made her look skinnier lol. So I'm wondering how accurate these statistics are.
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