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This is a frequent complaint -- often from men -- and there are some reasons it may happen. Give your profile a once-over and see if there might be any off-putting remarks. Make sure that you 're sending messages which aren't Meet Sluts Free too short and quippy, or too long and comprehensive. If you need any help, have a buddy review your profile, or post it in a forum like /r/okcupid (or whatever website you're using). That helped me a lot when I started out.
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Online dating can be tricky -- for all sexes. Putting yourself out onto the interweb, representing yourself as best as possible through a few photographs and a very small paragraph, and then waiting for random strangers to "approve" of you're stressful. But hey, the pursuit of love (or sex) is no easy task, or so claimed Lord Byron.
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I'd 've anticipated that too considering the one guy was clearly way older and fatter than he looked, but the other guy was up-to-date and I used very recent pictures, so I think it's more of a typical. I remember my mom always used old pictures that made her look skinnier lol. So I'm wondering how accurate those statistics are.
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What BD describes IMO sounds like it makes sense in theory but not in practice. The simple fact is these girls have a bajillion matches, and everyone knows that just because you match doesn't mean that she'll even respond or won't drop off quickly. Having an IG account reveals more which you're a real man and helps her feel more comfortable about meeting provided your pics don't absolutely suck. Remember that what you're dealing with here is tons of guys that are looking for quick sex so women are more and more sensitive to perceived "ONS" vibes from guys on there. There's also a reason why almost every other girl on there on their profile has some version of "if you're looking for sex, swipe " or something like that. Does that mean they won't do it on the first Local Slutty Girls or second date? Of course not. It just means that if they heavily pick up on these vibes early on, they're out. Is there a chance a woman might find something she doesn't like in your IG? Sure . but my experience has been the opposite.
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