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I would've anticipated that too considering the 1 man was clearly way older and fatter than he seemed, but the other man was up-to-date and I used very recent pictures, so I believe it's more of an average. I remember my mother always used old pictures that made her look skinnier lol. So I'm wondering how accurate these statistics are.
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