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Online dating can be tricky -- for all sexes. Putting yourself out onto the interweb, representing yourself as best as possible through a couple Slut Websites of photographs and a very small paragraph, and then waiting for random strangers to "approve" of you're trying. But hey, the pursuit of love (or sex) is no easy task, or so claimed Lord Byron.
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I would've expected that too considering the 1 man was obviously way older and fatter than he seemed, but the other guy was up-to-date and I used very recent pictures, so I believe it's more of a typical. I remember my mom always used old pictures that made her look skinnier lol. So I'm wondering how accurate these statistics are.
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